Showing posts with label optimism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label optimism. Show all posts
Friday, October 23, 2015
Sunday, August 2, 2015
Social media IS all about YOU!
A question was posed on Jeannette Facebook (yes people interact and ask questions of their most trusted advisors privately without all the hoopla on Twitter) on which network have respondents' found to be the best to launch their social media presence? Initially, I was going to reply with Twitter but then realized that my LINKED IN profile says the most about who I am with links to my Blog, philosophy OptioneerJM interests (Pinterest), philosophy (Blog) and (Blog) out of all the networks. However, I stopped myself to expand to state that I would credit Twitter for launching my#socialmedia personality to the stratosphere (compared to the others) ... honorable mention: without "working it) G+ #Google where I gained 5000#Followers compared to working it on #Twitter .
I have also uncovered an interesting tidbit. InstraGRAM has it's own stars, as Guy Kowasaki launched giHUGE on Google Plus. Goolge is appearing to be a sleeper platform. Surprisingly so since about three years ago I predicted that anything connected with Google was going to rapidly expand, really, I attest to its overall power over anything on the internet.
Bill Gates must really be shuddering and Steve Jobs, rolling in the clouds (the white ones), with Mr. Pakard, and Mr. Hewitt smiling fondly on a company that used their core values as a foundling to a superstar of anything technology -- internet, networks, cloud, search, blogs, SEO, content, mobility, games, Playstore. Non would disagree that Google allowed its team to study its competitors in the space they wanted to dominate: YOUR ATTENTION.
Thus the title of this blog: social media IS all about YOU!
Where else can you be you?
Seriously, you have to behave at church, pay attention in school, exert in extra-curricular activities, mind your manners with parents, siblings, relatives, friends sometimes, employer, boss, clergyman, partner, spouse, mentor, grandparents, and the clerk at the grocery store! Ah-hem (deep breath).... I'm exhausted and I didn't finish ... study, pay attention to your education or else your boss or your banker won't pay much attention to you while your friends, coach, family, mentor find other things to do because you lost their attention!
Finished stretching ... then there is your coach riding you on your sport, job, career, book, audio, video endurance. Can you stay relevant to your close circle of friends for the long run between relationships, getting married, having kids, setting up house, shopping, financial future, expertise, interests, or other activities?
Who can you show your photos to?
Be truthful and brutally honest, nobody wants to sit through your narrative on your vacation, travels, business trip, conference, school, wedding, birth, kids activity, sport, scores, sayings do they? How about you try sharing some photos with your blathering, shouting out, retweeting, shares, posts, profile, bio? Why would they settle in while you pass them photos of your graduation, party, BBQ, reunion, gathering, holiday, trips, flowers, food, fantasies when they tend to be serious about fitness, facts, favorites, family, focus.
Do people tune out when you philosophize?
Where did you get your certification, degree or Ph.D in recommending anything as important? Do you get to write and be featured in a magazine, newspaper, radio broadcast, television commercial, event, musical talents? Well, most of the people I know any way. Don't feel bad. You are part of the norm. Which makes me wonder where do all the exceptional, inspirational, motivational, celebrity, famous, super stars hang out all together? You thinking like me, not very many chill together.
Where can you test your theories?
So you know a thing or two is saved for self-proclaimed experts. Most of us know about a lot of different things which circle around interests: reading, writing, the environment, oceanography, meteorology, photography, and the king of it all: technology. Don't forget about art, beauty, fashion, fitness, food. Think about it: you wake up in the morning, and what you do makes you a participant of any number of those items. You maybe even stretching your brain to understand about all of them. Under technology you are using a computer, a laptop, a tablet, a cell phone, a telephone, a mobile phone, a smart phone with your fingertips so that must mean you are technology whiz too!
Fighting the pack is photography. Some are photographers, others videographers. But before we bow and face defeat ... we stand up to say we know just about anything about photography because we all have identification, passports, passes, reports, files, government with hands on experience ourselves so we can be a photographer of fame then.
We cook, eat, shop for groceries, nourish, exercise, shop, dress, apply makeup, learn all in the same day which makes us knowledgeable about just about everything.
Where can you learn?
Certainly, I get it. We all went to kindergarten, elementary, junior high, middle school, high school, college, university, conference, the internet, books, libraries to assemble our knowledge. Never all at the same time.
How do you share your love?
Personally, I like flowers, chocolates, getting it on, hugs and kisses. Do you know that about me? What makes you so special that you know that you have a spot in my heart? If you're lucky you will get a smile, a note, a card, a joke, an email, a bouquet of flowers, basket of fruit, my time, my attention, my loyalty, my effort, my response, and share likely except the chocolate perhaps.
Where DO you go?
Social media is elementary my dear people. You can do all those things, be all those people, be true to who you are, reject what is offensive, ignore what is irrelevant, find out what is going on, who has it going on, where you can go: travel, holiday, parks, oceans, seas, islands, countries, cities, experience, challenge, react to, rise up to, reach out to, reep rewards from? Social media my dear friends.
Who do you CONNECT with?
Besides the obvious that fall into your physical circle of influence, you can expand your influence, your circle, your friendships, your crushes, your adventures, mind, knowledge, specialty. You use social media to do that. Who ever said "the world was our oyster" was brilliant and a futurist who sensed that the world would end up be by what we do with those skills, experience, wisdom so that others may benefit, like, discover, recover, inspire, motivate, learn. You sound a poem? Very likely you have wrote one or read one, where can you do both? Social media: you can talk, read, act, smile, frown, inform, share, post, put forward.
Unconvinced still?
That's okay. There are still quite a number of you out there. You get your news from the radio, television, computer, school, company information. But what if you could assemble that all at the same time and share it with others who may connect, share similar interests, goals, achievements, dreams on the same level as you?
Social media is where it's at.
Time to get with it if you want to be cool, connected, informed, known.
I have also uncovered an interesting tidbit. InstraGRAM has it's own stars, as Guy Kowasaki launched giHUGE on Google Plus. Goolge is appearing to be a sleeper platform. Surprisingly so since about three years ago I predicted that anything connected with Google was going to rapidly expand, really, I attest to its overall power over anything on the internet.
Bill Gates must really be shuddering and Steve Jobs, rolling in the clouds (the white ones), with Mr. Pakard, and Mr. Hewitt smiling fondly on a company that used their core values as a foundling to a superstar of anything technology -- internet, networks, cloud, search, blogs, SEO, content, mobility, games, Playstore. Non would disagree that Google allowed its team to study its competitors in the space they wanted to dominate: YOUR ATTENTION.
Thus the title of this blog: social media IS all about YOU!
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| Father, brother, uncle, grandfather, coach, teacher, banker, employer, boss, clergy, mentor |
Seriously, you have to behave at church, pay attention in school, exert in extra-curricular activities, mind your manners with parents, siblings, relatives, friends sometimes, employer, boss, clergyman, partner, spouse, mentor, grandparents, and the clerk at the grocery store! Ah-hem (deep breath).... I'm exhausted and I didn't finish ... study, pay attention to your education or else your boss or your banker won't pay much attention to you while your friends, coach, family, mentor find other things to do because you lost their attention!
Finished stretching ... then there is your coach riding you on your sport, job, career, book, audio, video endurance. Can you stay relevant to your close circle of friends for the long run between relationships, getting married, having kids, setting up house, shopping, financial future, expertise, interests, or other activities?
Who can you show your photos to?
Be truthful and brutally honest, nobody wants to sit through your narrative on your vacation, travels, business trip, conference, school, wedding, birth, kids activity, sport, scores, sayings do they? How about you try sharing some photos with your blathering, shouting out, retweeting, shares, posts, profile, bio? Why would they settle in while you pass them photos of your graduation, party, BBQ, reunion, gathering, holiday, trips, flowers, food, fantasies when they tend to be serious about fitness, facts, favorites, family, focus.
Do people tune out when you philosophize?
Where did you get your certification, degree or Ph.D in recommending anything as important? Do you get to write and be featured in a magazine, newspaper, radio broadcast, television commercial, event, musical talents? Well, most of the people I know any way. Don't feel bad. You are part of the norm. Which makes me wonder where do all the exceptional, inspirational, motivational, celebrity, famous, super stars hang out all together? You thinking like me, not very many chill together.
Where can you test your theories?
So you know a thing or two is saved for self-proclaimed experts. Most of us know about a lot of different things which circle around interests: reading, writing, the environment, oceanography, meteorology, photography, and the king of it all: technology. Don't forget about art, beauty, fashion, fitness, food. Think about it: you wake up in the morning, and what you do makes you a participant of any number of those items. You maybe even stretching your brain to understand about all of them. Under technology you are using a computer, a laptop, a tablet, a cell phone, a telephone, a mobile phone, a smart phone with your fingertips so that must mean you are technology whiz too!
Fighting the pack is photography. Some are photographers, others videographers. But before we bow and face defeat ... we stand up to say we know just about anything about photography because we all have identification, passports, passes, reports, files, government with hands on experience ourselves so we can be a photographer of fame then.
We cook, eat, shop for groceries, nourish, exercise, shop, dress, apply makeup, learn all in the same day which makes us knowledgeable about just about everything.
Where can you learn?
Certainly, I get it. We all went to kindergarten, elementary, junior high, middle school, high school, college, university, conference, the internet, books, libraries to assemble our knowledge. Never all at the same time.
How do you share your love?
Personally, I like flowers, chocolates, getting it on, hugs and kisses. Do you know that about me? What makes you so special that you know that you have a spot in my heart? If you're lucky you will get a smile, a note, a card, a joke, an email, a bouquet of flowers, basket of fruit, my time, my attention, my loyalty, my effort, my response, and share likely except the chocolate perhaps.
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| #BlueAngels, #Airplanes, #SeaFair, #Planes #Seattle |
Where DO you go?
Social media is elementary my dear people. You can do all those things, be all those people, be true to who you are, reject what is offensive, ignore what is irrelevant, find out what is going on, who has it going on, where you can go: travel, holiday, parks, oceans, seas, islands, countries, cities, experience, challenge, react to, rise up to, reach out to, reep rewards from? Social media my dear friends.
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| #Minions #minion #banana #character #joke #quote |
Who do you CONNECT with?
Besides the obvious that fall into your physical circle of influence, you can expand your influence, your circle, your friendships, your crushes, your adventures, mind, knowledge, specialty. You use social media to do that. Who ever said "the world was our oyster" was brilliant and a futurist who sensed that the world would end up be by what we do with those skills, experience, wisdom so that others may benefit, like, discover, recover, inspire, motivate, learn. You sound a poem? Very likely you have wrote one or read one, where can you do both? Social media: you can talk, read, act, smile, frown, inform, share, post, put forward.
Unconvinced still?
That's okay. There are still quite a number of you out there. You get your news from the radio, television, computer, school, company information. But what if you could assemble that all at the same time and share it with others who may connect, share similar interests, goals, achievements, dreams on the same level as you?
Social media is where it's at.
Time to get with it if you want to be cool, connected, informed, known.
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Know thyself before thy marries
Seriously considering your life mate? How does one really know? I recommend you take a trip and travel with the man of your dreams ... see how he reacts over airport security, flight delays, luggage mishaps, hotel shortcomings, bathroom usage, where dirty clothes end up, eating schedule/choices, all-inclusive aka free drinks galore, babes in bikinis (gawker or glancer), packed airline, uncomfortable beds, seats; and just about anything else that spells disillusion or disaster.
I am constantly preaching to my 21 and 22 year old beautiful daughters that now that they're beyond puppy love or perceived deep love of their teens, relationships get more complicated as we take on more responsibilities in life:
- EDUCATION: University, training,
- Commitment: work, schedules, work out
- Spending time with family
- Moving out on your own
- Extra curricular golf, hockey, football, TV channel surfing, remote controlling gamers
- Money matters (going for dinner means you always pull out your wallet)
- Temptations: alcohol, drugs, fast lifestyle
- Sleeping habits (blanket hog, snorer)
- Friends (need a lot of boys nights out?)
- Couple friends (healthy ones)
- Goals in life
This particular fellow probably had himself as priority in all boxes for ticking off. Spend time with me, move where I want to be, my friends, my goals, my lifestyle. I'd be surprised if he wasn't a blanket hog and snorer which means dearly beloved move yourself on to the couch if it bothers you when you aren't giving birth, getting up in the wee hours, to tend to his offspring. The only pictures with the chip off the old block are photo ops where he looks like the world's best dad, meanwhile flying around promoting himself.
No, lol, I didn't marry him and that doesn't describe me. Sometimes our radars are on high alert and we can sniff a doomed partner from a mile away. Then why do we sometimes end up with someone so different that fit into our criteria? Philosophical and spiritual leanings tend to say it is fate. We sometimes fall for someone who reminds you of your father (mother) who you weren't that close to, but because we want a second go at it. Chances are the qualities you dislike in your father will be cloned in that man of your perceived dreams.
I suggest you heed the warning that if drinking in a club brought you together, that may be the major activity you share. Romantic notions of snuggling to watch Rom-Coms are ditched by speed, gun slugging, car speeding action movies (which is okay if you're into that ... if not, get used to it).
I recommend you pay attention to the little things....because the thoughtful gifts, flowers, candlelight dinners dim drastically by the second year. Be skeptical that he is courting you and it may not last forever. The acrobatics in bed can turn into napping on the couch and the Honey-DO list that never gets done. Hope and prayer ... and then be thankful for the thoughtful consideration he pays towards you. Don't fall for the looks, fall for the behavior. Who wants to be with a man you have to fight over the mirror with?
A caregiver is sexy. He is up at the crack of dawn, rarely breaks a sweat and always be counted on to show up to work regardless of the sniffles, a bruise tooling around, or slicing his finger making you a key lime pie from scratch or a lime cocktail (one or two, not a dozen). He has a job, a career, and a vision of who he wants to be and where he wants to end up. He's not coasting from one room mate to the next, over staying his welcome, and moving on because he owes favors, money or both.
Why are you reading this for heaven's sake? You know better girl. You don't expect a man who will be so rich and into himself that he only needs a trophy. You want to be someone, make a difference in your field, your passion, your career, your family. Don't blame yourself that you only want a partner who wants to rise above it all and make a life you love and love living.
"Courage is not the absence of fear; it is action in the presence of fear. Bold people do what they know they should do -- not what they feel like doing." ~Joyce Meyer
Yep, so get to it. Stop imagining what you want: remember that saying that goes along with the line of things happen to those who are busy doing, not making plans.
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
#FAST forward force
Hitting the big 5-0 rarely seems like a breeze for anyone. Mid-life crisis, empty nest syndrome, sagging muscles, self realization, and a great number of thoughts float through our inner peace. When you are in your teens your are into the moment, 20s into the future, 30s survival, 40s breeze and 50s panic.
When you arrive in this point in your life, your self conscious goals leep into your present mind, to question whether you have accomplished what you were thinking you would by now, while young enough to still regroup and make the most of life.
Realization that health is paramount strikes like a snake ready to bite you. Have you looked after yourself as well as you could of? Are you happy in love with your partner and content to sail through to your twilight years with your choice. Or, become restless wanting to be who you are meant to be.
Younger people think you are OLD by now - and that insults you. Do you try to make up for that by stylizing yourself to look hip, happening and carefree? What about settling in to the present, give yourself credit for the multiple of hurdles you've overcome to arrive at where you are instead of bitterness towards life, people, events? You cannot change the past and you can't predict the future. You can only control what you do today in this present minute.
You have it within yourself to make decisions of magnitude proportions. Wipe the slate clean. Forget the unforgettable. Forgive the unforgiveable. Move forward towards the unknown with an optimism that will most likely extend your life, settle your restlessness and guide you to make a difference today.
If you MUST. Do an inventory. Not materialistically, because that is a losing battle. The likelihood of winning the lottery is unrealistic. Think of your parents, relatives, and consider them in their 70s and 80s and if lucky beyond. Did the turmoil in their younger years settle down and gracefully guide them? Do you recognize their wisdom to know what can be done now, in the present? Do you listen? Learn from that reflection. It will give you strength to embrace all the great things you have and may be in store.
Grasp you spirituality, write, enjoy art, photography, and all those things that bring you inner joy. Color, doodle, go for walks in a park and breath in the air, enjoy the fresh smell of cut grass. Spend every spare moment with friends and loved ones who bring you joy.
You are no longer in a space in your life where you are judged by your accomplishments as much as by how you look -- exuding optimism, not regrets, making others want to be in your sphere. Wisdom is yours to dispense, don't waste it on anyone who doesn't want to listen. Even if you know that they are on a rocky road and understand that there is nothing you can do to prevent it. Be there to listen, give advice when only asked.
You've made it this far and many others consider you young. Don't waste your time on anything or anyone who makes you feel old. Don't deny your age by behavior that shouts to the world that you are having trouble dealing with it. The world doesn't care. It is your issue. Recoup and file away that fight for eternal youth. Appreciate you have arrived where you are from pain, regrets, disappointments ... let go of the heart's battle scars.
Be creative in your zone. Write, blog, take photography lessons, a financial course ... whatever floats your boat. It is only your's to embrace. You have the power and force to sail through this phase regardless of the bumps you had to reach it. Understand and be empowered knowing and observing that others are climbing those past hills, that you survived and brought you survival. Be proud of who you are. Forgive if you haven't been the inventor, psychologist, artist, writer, business whiz you thought you were or would continue to be. You have a roof over your head, love in your heart, food in your belly and innovation to be whimsical. Aging forgives that and allows you to do that. You are no longer in judgment mode, you are in being mode.
You haven't arrived at your destination. You are still on a journey. How you handle it will determine the strength of character you possess. Be a positive inspiration to those around you who marvel at your grace, class, and distinction.
"Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind. It doesn't matter."
~Mark Twain
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| Pablo Picasso |
When you arrive in this point in your life, your self conscious goals leep into your present mind, to question whether you have accomplished what you were thinking you would by now, while young enough to still regroup and make the most of life.
Realization that health is paramount strikes like a snake ready to bite you. Have you looked after yourself as well as you could of? Are you happy in love with your partner and content to sail through to your twilight years with your choice. Or, become restless wanting to be who you are meant to be.
Younger people think you are OLD by now - and that insults you. Do you try to make up for that by stylizing yourself to look hip, happening and carefree? What about settling in to the present, give yourself credit for the multiple of hurdles you've overcome to arrive at where you are instead of bitterness towards life, people, events? You cannot change the past and you can't predict the future. You can only control what you do today in this present minute.
You have it within yourself to make decisions of magnitude proportions. Wipe the slate clean. Forget the unforgettable. Forgive the unforgiveable. Move forward towards the unknown with an optimism that will most likely extend your life, settle your restlessness and guide you to make a difference today.
If you MUST. Do an inventory. Not materialistically, because that is a losing battle. The likelihood of winning the lottery is unrealistic. Think of your parents, relatives, and consider them in their 70s and 80s and if lucky beyond. Did the turmoil in their younger years settle down and gracefully guide them? Do you recognize their wisdom to know what can be done now, in the present? Do you listen? Learn from that reflection. It will give you strength to embrace all the great things you have and may be in store.
You are no longer in a space in your life where you are judged by your accomplishments as much as by how you look -- exuding optimism, not regrets, making others want to be in your sphere. Wisdom is yours to dispense, don't waste it on anyone who doesn't want to listen. Even if you know that they are on a rocky road and understand that there is nothing you can do to prevent it. Be there to listen, give advice when only asked.
You've made it this far and many others consider you young. Don't waste your time on anything or anyone who makes you feel old. Don't deny your age by behavior that shouts to the world that you are having trouble dealing with it. The world doesn't care. It is your issue. Recoup and file away that fight for eternal youth. Appreciate you have arrived where you are from pain, regrets, disappointments ... let go of the heart's battle scars.
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| Homage to Pablo Picasso by John Nolan |
Be creative in your zone. Write, blog, take photography lessons, a financial course ... whatever floats your boat. It is only your's to embrace. You have the power and force to sail through this phase regardless of the bumps you had to reach it. Understand and be empowered knowing and observing that others are climbing those past hills, that you survived and brought you survival. Be proud of who you are. Forgive if you haven't been the inventor, psychologist, artist, writer, business whiz you thought you were or would continue to be. You have a roof over your head, love in your heart, food in your belly and innovation to be whimsical. Aging forgives that and allows you to do that. You are no longer in judgment mode, you are in being mode.
You haven't arrived at your destination. You are still on a journey. How you handle it will determine the strength of character you possess. Be a positive inspiration to those around you who marvel at your grace, class, and distinction.
"Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind. It doesn't matter."
~Mark Twain
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| Pablo Picasso |
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Minions Mayhem
Minions are everywhere. Even creating mayhem in McDonald's commercials and even snuck into corporate ads. Everyone wants to get in on the fun, apparently.
I had fun surfing and looking for minion photos and quotes that I could relate to that tells you a lot about me:
I had fun surfing and looking for minion photos and quotes that I could relate to that tells you a lot about me:
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| You've been warned |
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| I'm not a morning person and tend to roll around, if time permits, for a couple of hours before I get out of bed |
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| Someone had me in mind when they created this one. |
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| I believe this to be true, so true. |
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| Who hasn't done this? We should laugh at ourselves. |
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| You can control who you surround yourself with and they should accept and adore you. If not, turf them. |
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| A note to my loving family .... particularly my kids xo |
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| You can relate to this if you have teenage and young adult kids |
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| What a positive message. I do try to be a perfectionist so this pokes fun at me! |
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| Wise advice to those who love us and "try" to understand women. |
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| Slash will be coming to Calgary at the Grey Eagle resort with Miles Kennedy |
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| A fun social media share for Mondays |
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| This has been repined many times on #Pinterest |
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| Can you imagine having one of these? |
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| Poking fun at advertisements |
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| I'm a BIG fan of Johnny Depp and his Jack Sparrow character is classic in Pirates of the Caribbean (filming the 5th installment in Australia right now!) |
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| Great question! |
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Need for speed: I tend to go over the speed limit ... GUILTY! |
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| I love dark roast in my French press - the only way to have coffee |
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| True that: don't mess with me, when I have "the look" |
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| Giggle, snicker, chuckle |
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| Rarely would I think that because I don't tend to waste my time with those who whine all the time |
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| Everyone loves a snow day break, admit it? |
Monday, June 8, 2015
Quoting QUOTES
Quotes tend to inspire and motivate.
They are popular on all the social media platforms and tend to be shared more if they host an image.
I've assembled some of the ones that I made up from a combination of wonderful imagery, art or photography to pay tribute and give justice to such innovative wording.
I hope you like some or all of them. They have been attributed to whom said the words .... and a few times, the images inspired me to create my own.
They are popular on all the social media platforms and tend to be shared more if they host an image.
I've assembled some of the ones that I made up from a combination of wonderful imagery, art or photography to pay tribute and give justice to such innovative wording.
I hope you like some or all of them. They have been attributed to whom said the words .... and a few times, the images inspired me to create my own.
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